i’m 15 and absolutely hate how my labia looks. ever since i started masturbating is when i noticed my clit hood grew larger and the skin stretched and made t look absolutely horrible. my labia is a very dark mauve and i am so overly insecure about it. after reading that labiaplasticity is an option i am thoroughly considering it after reading the good reviews it has received. i’m scared that when i am ready for sex boys will not like the appearance of my vagina as it is far from tight and attractive. i know this site promotes self confidence and to love the way ur parts look but i feel like, someone telling me ‘it’s normal and everyone has it’ isn’t going to change my mind on how i view myself.
I’m proud of you for being brave enough to open up about your insecurities.
Undergoing labiaplasty surgery is a personal decision and it’s not my place to tell you not to do so – it’s your body and you are entitled to make your own decisions about it.
That being said, I encourage you to do thorough research so that you can make an informed decision and not an emotional one that you may regret someday. Many women have good labiaplasty experiences and are very happy with the results, but not all of the reviews out there are good, and there are women who regret undergoing the procedure or are disappointed with the results.
You’re also right that telling you that you’re normal is not a quick-fix which will magically make your insecurities disappear. Overcoming insecurities and body issues doesn’t happen overnight, and it can be a long and difficult process to reach a point of self-acceptance. The first step is recognizing the problem and deciding to overcome it. Then the hard work begins.