I’ve been very insecure about my droopy labia. Probably around the age of 11 or 12 I noticed mine would look different from my friends and that didn’t change growing up… when I was 14 – 17 years old I was so scared that a boy would judge me or think it was ugly, but as I grew up it was more that I am now uncomfortable in most clothing and whilst having sex (I’m 21 now).
There is nothing ugly or unattractive about your labia. Spend some time looking through the submissions on the Labia Project and you will see that your genital anatomy is completely normal.
Please see my reply to this post for some tips on finding clothing that is more comfortable, and on reducing discomfort during sex.