I am 34 years old and have mostly a negative relationship with my labia. I am terrified to take on new lovers, which, at this point in my life isn’t conducive to meeting a future father for the kids I would love to one day have. I have been sexually active since 15 and my body wasn’t always this way. My hope in providing this photo is that I’ll begin to love my labia instead of hating it.
I’m so sorry to hear that you have been experiencing insecurities when it comes to your labia.
Firstly, I need to assure you that you are not alone. The Labia Project owes its existence to the widespread insecurities experienced by women regarding their labia.
Secondly, I need to assure you that you are not only normal, but unique and beautiful. Any guy would be lucky to get the chance to share intimacy with you, and even luckier to father kids with you.
The important thing, before you can let a guy love you, is for you to learn to love yourself. I know that it is easier said than done, but making this submission was a major step in the process. It shows your commitment to getting over your insecurities and reaching a point of self-acceptance in the not-too-distant future.
Please feel free to contact me by e-mail anytime you want to share anything on your mind during your journey towards embracing your body.