I’m a sophomore in highschool and I’ve had a long labia for as long as I can remember. I’ve always felt very uncomfortable with myself. Because of this I’ve turned down many sexual experiences, I feel like I’m missing out. I’m scared to show anyone my vagina because guys my age are immature. They think vaginas are supposed to look like those on pornhub. Anyways your not alone.
Many guys your age are immature and don’t know that most vaginas don’t look like porn star vaginas.
A big reason for this is a lack of education – in sex-ed, young people are not taught about the fact that vaginas are not all alike, and the differences are completely normal.
You should only get into an intimate relationship with a guy when you’re ready to do so. It should be with a guy who is genuinely into you for the right reasons, and who is mature and sensitive enough not to pass judgment.