Scared to let my bf see my ugly labia, flabby tummy and small boobs

flabby-tummy-small-boobsugly labiaI’m 18, 5″7 and 133 pounds. I am extremely self conscious about my body and hate almost every aspect, and therefore have never let anyone into my life before, until I met my boyfriend who I adore. We’re in a long distance relationship, and although I have sent him nudes when he asks, they’re from deceiving angles to make my waist look smaller and my butt look bigger and to hide my ugly labia. I used to be fatter, and losing weight has left me with a saggy stomach. I still have fat there, but some of it is loose skin too and when I’m on all fours it hangs down and looks awful. My boobs are small at only a 34B, I feel I look manly with my broad back and square butt. My ugly labia makes me cry, and I often have stressful dreams about cutting it off. I know my boyfriend’s preferences, petite, slim, large breasts, firm round ass. I just feel like I can’t be good enough for him.

First off, from where I’m sitting, you look like a healthy, normal woman. The media fosters unrealistic and unattainable images of women, resulting in a skewed perception of beauty.

This blog focuses on body issues relating to the labia, and you will see that there is a huge variety of labia types out there, including variations in size, texture and coloration, all of which are completely normal. 

With regard to your dreams and thoughts regarding self-harm, it may be a good idea for you to speak to a counselor, psychologist or other qualified professional who can act as a sounding board and help you to work through these difficult issues.

If it’s any comfort, I can tell you that you are not alone in experiencing these issues, as millions of women go through similar issues which is one of the reasons I started this blog.

If you would like to talk in private, please send me an e-mail at

Clare xoxo

One thought on “Scared to let my bf see my ugly labia, flabby tummy and small boobs

  1. randy

    I have seen many females nude in my lifetime. The female form is a bueautiful thing. You have a perfect body body and any lady should be thrilled with it. Any guy in his right mind would want the lights on just to look at you when having sex. Good luck and quit tripping.


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