Many women write to me to express their fears about having their vulva or vagina judged by a guy or being considered unattractive, and they are reluctant to have sex because of this.
They are often consumed by anxiety which can affect many areas of their lives, ruin their teenage and adult years, and lead to depression and other psychological issues.
The reality is that plenty of men are self conscious as well. Men and women both experience anxiety about how they look, how they will be perceived, and whether they will be judged harshly by a partner.
Anther aspect to consider about a man’s dating life:
A man has to find the courage to walk up to a woman, say that he likes her, be funny and interesting, have an erection, maintain it, don’t ejaculate prematurely, and make her reach orgasm.
Please don’t let your anxiety consume you. Accept that we’re all a little odd in one way or another, and that’s what makes us special and unique as individuals.